Feeling sad (venting) LONG
Question:
Leigh, Hi, I understand too well. I have been married almost 10 years. 9 years of trying. It is so hard to hold a baby without crying. Enjoy being an aunt and hopefully next month you will be a mommy to be. Sharon 2miscarriages
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Hi Leigh, It’s been 1 year since my SIL had her baby, and I still vividly remember my feelings. Once I held her baby rocked him and feed him all the sad feelings I had for myself went away. He’s truly a joy. The in-laws on the other hand do make it OH SO difficult to be around. They are a constant reminder of how we can not bring them the joy their only grandson brings them. They want us to give them a granddaughter. We’ve come flat out and said "look you will never have bio grandchildren from us". We’ve been through so much to even try and have a child, all of this information they know. Meds, IUI’s, then finding out DH only has 2.3% normal sperm, 1 failed IVF…I too would like to just scream at them, but somehow they just don’t get it! Being pleasant does become a chore. So anytime you want to vent just use me as a sounding board…I share and feel your pain. Donna Trying for 4 yrs. with no success in sight Raleigh, NC
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best of luk to you Donna if you ever want to talk emal me. Deborah tyring 4 years diagnosed PCOS in Aug. ‘98 clomid (50mg) not effective clomid (100 mg) not effective start this nov. clomid (150 mg) ++++thoughts
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I too have PCOS. Very frustrating. Although I have adopted a beautiful and wonderful daughter (who is 5 today). I still long to experience a child growing inside of me, have a larger family and be apart of so many around me who are experience something I may never. I am truly grateful and blessed to have my child. After 2 years of the usual treatment and 1 bout of unsuccessful IVF I am always hopeful that "maybe it will happen this month". I can’t shake the feeling of hope. I have extremely irregular cycles and experience symptoms I assume is ovulation, but no pregnancy. I know people around me who get pregnant just by saying the word and yet show no appreciation for the life they created. Lynne
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Well, my sister in law had her baby last night….. I am truely happy for her, but as usual, feeling sad for myself….. Wondering when it is gonna be my turn…… I just find it frustrating that some people can get pregnant easy, while I struggle… It is just hard… I get so tired of feeling like this, I just wish I could not let it bother me, but now, I am gonna have to go see the "in laws" and hear them say,"well, when are you gonna have a baby." I don’t think I can be pleasant any more.. I am at the point of snapping now… My husband and I have been married for 9 1/2 years, and have been trying for almost 4 years, and they are already wondering what is taking so long… And I have heard just about enough of those little "well meaning" remarks like "just relax, it will happen" and you all know the others.. They do not understand that no matter how much I relax, I will not get pregnant without help…. Anyway, thanks for letting me vent Leigh 1 miscarriage 5 cycle of clomid 1 cycle of Repronex Seeing RE again Oct. 26 
maybe this time it will happen
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