Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS)

My worst fear came true (m/c mentioned)

Question:

Oh Sweetie.I have not gone through this, but my heart is filled with tears for you. I’m sure in time you will heal, but right now, we’re all here for you. We love you ((HUGS)) J.J.

Response:

I have never gone through this Heather but I am sending warm hugs to you and DH. I can’t tell you that the hurt will get better but know that I am here as well if you would like to talk. Tracy – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -HeathDVM wrote: > My husband and I were so excited that after a year and a half of trying to get > pregnant with PCOS, we finally conceived.  We went in for our seven week > ultrasound and the doctor said the baby was gone.  He called it a missed > abortion or blighted ovum. > We’re devastated.  I don’t know what to do.  I’m terrified that I’ll never > conceive again.  I just can’t believe I won’t get to hold my baby in my arms. > Have any of you ever gone through this? > Heather

Response:

Heather, I m/c my first pregnancy (I was taking Met) but was pregnant again in 3 months after going back on Metformin and starting progesterone supplements earlier. Don’t give up hope.  I’ve got the proof at home that it can happen. Despina – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -HeathDVM wrote: > My husband and I were so excited that after a year and a half of trying to get > pregnant with PCOS, we finally conceived.  We went in for our seven week > ultrasound and the doctor said the baby was gone.  He called it a missed > abortion or blighted ovum. > We’re devastated.  I don’t know what to do.  I’m terrified that I’ll never > conceive again.  I just can’t believe I won’t get to hold my baby in my arms. > Have any of you ever gone through this? > Heather

Response:

I too am recovering from a miscarriage – it is my 2nd in a year and a half of trying to get and stay pregnant.  You too will probably hear a lot of really rude comments like – at least you know you can get pregnant and can try again.  My advice to you is to take quite time and reflect on what it means to you.  I think a lot of people try to focus on trying again too soon and don’t allow themselves (or our society doesn’t allow them) to mourn the loss. I am now taking Metformin and supplementing every cycle with progesteron.  Make sure they check your progesteron levels. You are not alone, Tania – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -HeathDVM wrote: > My husband and I were so excited that after a year and a half of trying to get > pregnant with PCOS, we finally conceived.  We went in for our seven week > ultrasound and the doctor said the baby was gone.  He called it a missed > abortion or blighted ovum. > We’re devastated.  I don’t know what to do.  I’m terrified that I’ll never > conceive again.  I just can’t believe I won’t get to hold my baby in my arms. > Have any of you ever gone through this? > Heather

Response:

I haven’t but I wanted to extend my sympathies and best wishes for whatever you decide to do next. Victoria HeathDVM <heath…@aol.com> wrote in message

news:20000827101507.22460.00000782@ng-md1.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> My husband and I were so excited that after a year and a half of trying to get > pregnant with PCOS, we finally conceived.  We went in for our seven week > ultrasound and the doctor said the baby was gone.  He called it a missed > abortion or blighted ovum. > We’re devastated.  I don’t know what to do.  I’m terrified that I’ll never > conceive again.  I just can’t believe I won’t get to hold my baby in my arms. > Have any of you ever gone through this? > Heather

Response:

My husband and I were so excited that after a year and a half of trying to get pregnant with PCOS, we finally conceived.  We went in for our seven week ultrasound and the doctor said the baby was gone.  He called it a missed abortion or blighted ovum.   We’re devastated.  I don’t know what to do.  I’m terrified that I’ll never conceive again.  I just can’t believe I won’t get to hold my baby in my arms.   Have any of you ever gone through this?   Heather

Response:

Heather,   I can’t say that I found out about losing my baby in the way that you did.  I was approximately 14 weeks pregnant (I had only known less than a week).  I actually had a miscarriage.  The only thing that made it worse is that it to the OB Emergecy Section at our local University over 5 hours to tell me.     I was also devistated.  What made that worse is that there are quite a few of the ladies that I work with who are pregnant.  I know that crying and talking about it to other PCOS women that have went througha m/c has helped.  But I will tell you that it will get better. Hugs, Heather

Response:

I have never been through this but any women on here who has hopes of conceiving someday shares this terrible fear.  My heart aches for you and we’re here on this group to support you through this terrible time. {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} Jenn In article <20000827101507.22460.00000…@ng-md1.aol.com>,   heath…@aol.com (HeathDVM) wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> My husband and I were so excited that after a year and a half of trying to get > pregnant with PCOS, we finally conceived.  We went in for our seven week > ultrasound and the doctor said the baby was gone.  He called it a missed > abortion or blighted ovum. > We’re devastated.  I don’t know what to do.  I’m terrified that I’ll never > conceive again.  I just can’t believe I won’t get to hold my baby in my arms. > Have any of you ever gone through this? > Heather

– ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Jenn Golden Met since 21/March/2000 AF #1 24/May/2000 AF #2 28/June/2000 – 35 day cycle AF #3 10/Aug/2000 – 44 day cycle Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/ Before you buy.

Response:

Dear Heather- No, I have not personally gone through this, but a friend of mine has. You will be happy to know that less than a month later, she conceived again, and is now mother of two and another on the way. So keep your chin up   Dawn

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