Help…just diagnosed and very confused (preg mentioned)/
Question:
>Aren’t they such old farts?
LOL..this made me laugh ladies….so funny!! trish..
Response:
Your situation is very similar to mine. I’m not clear on what the correct terms are, but there is an actual disease of the ovaries (or hormones?), and then there is the mimicking of this disease– brought on by obesity. I had most all of the symptoms, but all of my blood tests came back normal and my ovaries are normal– I’ve never had a cyst as far as anyone has been able to tell. I too got pregnant without assistance (heck, without planning even) and had an uneventful pregnancy. But now, we have had unprotected sex for about 5 years (my daughter is 6 and a half) and so far haven’t hit it right. Last year I went to two doctors for help and they both recommended weight loss. So I’ve lost 70 lbs (still have a long long way to go), my periods are like clockwork and I’ve seen great improvements in both acne & skin tags. I’ve also become the Queen Mother of PMS… but that’s something I haven’t discussed with my doctor yet. I have an appt next month. But of course, you are not me… weight loss has helped my symptoms, but so far I’m still not pregnant. I could not tolerate any of the BCPs they tried me on.. although my periods were regular, I was a weepy mess and gained 20 lbs. BCPs were supposed to get me regular for a year or so before they tried aggressive fertility meds. I’m still holding out hope that I’ll soon conceive.. since I feel so much better physically. But time is running out.. I’m almost 38 and have watched two of my friends go through scary 40+ pregnancies– they both had good results, but I was really amazed at times that they were able to hold it together. Anyway.. hang in there. Weight loss done sensibly can be the least invasive thing to try, but it’s slow going & not much fun
OH, I just reread– you had a blood test… elevated testosterone levels can indicate the actual disease. And I think some other levels they look at also. Has your OB seen the blood test results?? I would tell him "the nurse said this means (whatever she said)… you don’t agree??" I’ve had nurses make comments about blood pressure changes, etc… then the doctor say "oh, I’m not concerned about that reading at all" (????) Also– my husband is 12 years older than me too… He’ll be 50 (!!) later this month. Aren’t they such old farts?
BUT only half the time– the other half of the time he acts like he’s 13 & I’m his mommy
GOOD LUCK!!! – Marya – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -In article <19980314035601.WAA01…@ladder01.news.aol.com> saphyre…@aol.com (Saphyreblu) writes: >Hi all! Please help clarify a few things if you will. First of all is there a >difference between pcos and pcod. I was told on Wednesday 3-11 that I have >polycystic ovarian disease is this different than syndrome or are the terms >interchangable? >I am a 35 yo woman, (will be 36 in may), with a 2 1/2 year old daughter >conceived naturally without aid of fertility drugs and with no complications. >However, I have had irregular periods for about 10 yrs now, was 4 1/2 months >pregnant with my daughter before I knew it as my periods were always wacky. I >am obese. I saw my first RE on 3-11, just on the basis of a blood test >administered by my ob/gyn and what I explained above his nurse told me I have >PCOD and gave me a pamplet on it although the Dr. never mentioned cysts at all. > Am I overreacting, or in denial,I am thinking that I should probably have a >2nd opinion, this diagnosis just seems very premature. Could this just be that >I am overweight and if I lose the weight things will be easier as far as >getting pregnant goes? >Right now they have me on provera, then bcp for a month then they want me to >give myself intramuscular shots of Fertinex and also take progesterone >supplements. This all sounds really scary to me, I’m getting terms confused, >I’m hearing one thing from the Dr. and other things from the nurse. They want >me to meet with a weight counselor but not to delay treatment becuz of my age, >they want my hubbie to take another sperm analysis, more blood from me, I have >pages of notes on what I am supposed to do in the next month and I’m really >worked up. I can’t sleep. I can’t get this off my mind. I know I have one >child already and to some this may sound selfish but I really want my daughter >to have a sibling. I was an only child and grew up lonely and I don’t want her >feeling the same way. My husband, although supportive, is 12 years older than >I am and feels as though he is getting too old for all of this and that he will >back me in whatever I want but he just doesn’t feel the drive I do. >I never thought I would be married, never thought I would get pregnant, now >that I have done both I want to extend my family and I feel like my earlier >hesitation and my waiting until my thirties has someway penalized me. I know >this isn’t rational but I really feel awful. >I would really like to talk to someone. Please feel free to email me… >Jocelyn >(Saphyreblu) >E-mail to Saphyre…@AOL.com >Webpage: Http://members.aol.com/saphyreblu/index.html >I am certain of nothing but the holiness >of the Heart’s affections and the >truth of the Imagination. > John Keats
Response:
Hi all! Please help clarify a few things if you will. First of all is there a difference between pcos and pcod. I was told on Wednesday 3-11 that I have polycystic ovarian disease is this different than syndrome or are the terms interchangable? I am a 35 yo woman, (will be 36 in may), with a 2 1/2 year old daughter conceived naturally without aid of fertility drugs and with no complications. However, I have had irregular periods for about 10 yrs now, was 4 1/2 months pregnant with my daughter before I knew it as my periods were always wacky. I am obese. I saw my first RE on 3-11, just on the basis of a blood test administered by my ob/gyn and what I explained above his nurse told me I have PCOD and gave me a pamplet on it although the Dr. never mentioned cysts at all. Am I overreacting, or in denial,I am thinking that I should probably have a 2nd opinion, this diagnosis just seems very premature. Could this just be that I am overweight and if I lose the weight things will be easier as far as getting pregnant goes? Right now they have me on provera, then bcp for a month then they want me to give myself intramuscular shots of Fertinex and also take progesterone supplements. This all sounds really scary to me, I’m getting terms confused, I’m hearing one thing from the Dr. and other things from the nurse. They want me to meet with a weight counselor but not to delay treatment becuz of my age, they want my hubbie to take another sperm analysis, more blood from me, I have pages of notes on what I am supposed to do in the next month and I’m really worked up. I can’t sleep. I can’t get this off my mind. I know I have one child already and to some this may sound selfish but I really want my daughter to have a sibling. I was an only child and grew up lonely and I don’t want her feeling the same way. My husband, although supportive, is 12 years older than I am and feels as though he is getting too old for all of this and that he will back me in whatever I want but he just doesn’t feel the drive I do. I never thought I would be married, never thought I would get pregnant, now that I have done both I want to extend my family and I feel like my earlier hesitation and my waiting until my thirties has someway penalized me. I know this isn’t rational but I really feel awful. I would really like to talk to someone. Please feel free to email me… Jocelyn (Saphyreblu) E-mail to Saphyre…@AOL.com Webpage: Http://members.aol.com/saphyreblu/index.html I am certain of nothing but the holiness of the Heart’s affections and the truth of the Imagination. John Keats